Christmas is coming!
Like most families, we’re making plans and collecting gift ideas.
It’s a wonderful, joyful experience to give someone a gift-especially if you know it’s something that would truly make them smile.
But what do you give a loved one when they really aren’t too keen on “stuff”….AND you’re not too keen on only giving gift cards?
Welcome to a post on minimalism-gift giving edition!
You may have a family member or friend who falls into this category, whether they use the label or not. They’ve cut back on their possessions in order to enjoy more experiences and relationships, their homes have few to no tchotchkes, little clutter, and few items that serve only one purpose.
You really want to get them something…something they would enjoy, and is not likely to end up on the Goodwill pile a month after Christmas (sorry, that’s the truth of it). If this is you, then I have some good news for you!
There are PLENTY of gift ideas for a minimalist! But before we get to these ideas, there are a few points that need to be made, to help you understand your loved one’s mindset better:
- They DO like stuff. They just don’t enjoy the unnecessary or general excess in their lives, and are more selective when it comes to material items that stay with them.
- A thoughtful gift will have more meaning to them, and likely be something they will always remember.
- They recognize and respect a friend who has paid attention to who they really are, minimalism included
Okay, now to the fun idea list! Gift ideas galore!!
- movie tickets
- concert tickets
- sport event tickets (you get the idea)
- paid membership for something they enjoy (gym, dance class, climbing, etc…)
- if you’re a really close friend, personally contribute toward something you know they have been saving for (car, travel, house, etc…)
- If you know they’re traveling in the upcoming year, gift them something they can enjoy there (wine tasting, dinner, hotel upgrade, special tour, ect…) Many of these can be booked ahead of time
- Netflix/AudioBooks/Amazon Prime subscription for a determined time
- Cooking classes
- Special dinner for two in their city
- A “Stay In Date Night” package: wine, movie rental, popcorn, candy, etc…
- Overnight getaway to a local spot
- Hire a cleaning service for a month for their home (if they have little kids, this is awesome!!!!)
- Offer to come over and do laundry one week
- Meal deliveries (homemade or paid for)
- Spa/massage certificates (yes please!!!!)
- Offer to the pay for or be a babysitter for their next date night (that is HUGE!)
- If you’re a handy person, offer to come over and help with around the house projects for the next month
- Pay for a car detailing or offer to do it yourself
- Schedule flower deliveries for the next month (a special thing in January!)
- Zoo membership
- Swim classes for kids
- Offer to carpool for a week
- Offer to help with all the prep/set up for the next birthday party
- Donation to a cause they’re passionate about in their name
- If you’re friend/loved one is pregnant, offer to help with “nesting” to prepare for the arrival of the new baby (a nine month preggo lady climbing up and down chairs is not a good time…)
These are all gifts that, although do not always take material form, are extremely meaningful. And, in addition to all the above, there are always gift cards, which are wonderful gifts!
One last thing, if none of the above strikes you, or perhaps you still would rather just give them SOMETHING…..then all you have to do is ask. Seriously, just be honest. Say, “I know you prefer to have fewer things around, but I would really like to get you something for Christmas that you would enjoy. Would you give me some ideas?” Boom! Done! Odds are, there is something they would like, or would like to replace/update, but may not be something you had thought of. Always ask. It’s greatly appreciated.
I am one of these people. A minimalist in my own way. The older I am, the less I enjoy things….or rather, many things in one place. This past birthday, my mother took the above approach and asked me to put together an Amazon gift idea list for her to use. That was one of the best gifts in and of itself to me. I appreciated that she recognized how uncomfortable I am now with clutter. She wanted to give me something I genuinely wanted.
So I did. It was fun, low pressure, and I knew I could put anything on the list and not worry about how it came across. Some items were practical, others were updates to household items I already had. And a couple were lovely extras. It made my birthday feel all the more special. And she got to choose ultimately what she wanted to give me. Win win!
So maybe think outside the box this Christmas, and I think you’ll be pleasantly surprised by the joy you bring and give!
Unless something else pops to mind, this may be my last post for a little while, as I prepare for baby #4’s arrival in just a couple of weeks!!
Merry Christmas to all!!